The 6 most common things women wish men did in bed.
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This is the number one complaint from women. It takes women a long time to get into sex, they need warming up, they need to get turned on, it takes women longer to come than most men can last. If you want to get to the point where your woman is begging you to tie her up and fuck her in the ass, then you need to make sure you’re giving her the sex she craves, and that means taking your time and that means giving her orgasms every time. Both of which are most easily achieved through foreplay.
Its not just tits, pussy, ass
The next most common mistake guys are making is going straight for the pussy when the foreplay begins. Don’t worry too much about where you are touching them, just know this, touch everywhere except the pussy, tits or ass for as long as you can. While you are touching her, move as slowly as you can and keep the kissing to a minimum while you’re doing this.
More vaginal orgasms
Now I'm not saying you shouldn’t give women clitoral orgasms, you should, almost everytime, but you need to realise she can do that herself, she doesn’t need you.
The easiest way to give a girl a vaginal orgasm is by fingering her and concentrating on her gspot,
Women hate a guy who makes no noise during sex. Change that today. Watch the video and never ever have sex in silence ever ever again.
In every study, survey, questionnaire, research, whatever on women's sexual fantasies being dominated, or even raped comes out as number 1 close to 100% of the time, now let me make this crystal clear this doesn’t mean women want to get raped, theres a big difference between a fantasy and what people actually want, and this is true even more so for women than for men.
There are different theories about why this is the case, evolutionary psychologists will say something along the lines of in prehistoric times, women who were sexually aroused by submissive men had fewer surviving offspring, because those men got dominated by other men, and thus couldn’t provide for their women and children. As a result, largely the genes of women who like dominant men, and thus like being dominated, got passed on. Similarly, men who like feeling dominant, also passed on more genes, because men who are dominant in all aspects of their lives acquire more resources and status, which in prehistoric times, meant more genetic fitness.
and women will say it’s because it makes them feel desired and safe.
But the evolutionary psychologist is only speculating and women have no idea of the reason they like the things they like, just like until recently men had no idea why they liked a hip to waist ratio of 0.7, if you would have asked they would have given you a reason, but none of them knew it was because it was one of the best indicators of a woman’s ability to have a healthy baby. none of us have full introspective insight into their decision-making process what they claim motivates them is often inaccurate.
The reason why however is not too important. What is important is that it is often universal that women like their man to be dominant, especially in the bedroom. 50 shades of grey is the fastest selling book, of all time, ever, i rest my case.
But Being dominant over a woman doesn’t mean that you should be overly aggressive with her. Women do like being dominated, but not in the way that many guys mistakenly assume.
For a lot of women dominance can just mean that the man takes the lead, this means that you initiate the sex , you take control once it begins, you don’t ask permission before you do something, you just do it, or command it. disclaimer, this does not mean rape.
Imagine it like a dance, like salsa, the men don’t force the women to do anything, but they do take the lead, they are the dominant one. Tell her what you’re doing and let her choose if she wants to be in or not. You’re taking the lead, not being pushy.
Many want it rough, and don’t be scared to get rough, just start lightly and build it slowly, being very careful to watch her reactions to what you do, try grabbing her by the hair, try putting your hand round her throat while you’re fucking her, try pinning her arms behind her back or above her head. just look for feedback for it, if you look you’ll be able to see if she likes it, if she does, try to go a bit further, pull her hair a bit harder, throw her against a wall and fuck her hard from behind. just be sure that if you see any sign that she’s not totally into it you stop immediately and tone it down for the rest of the time, then ask her about it afterwards.
Theres more than one way to have sex